For all my years using computers, I'm ashamed to say I really know nothing about security. But my friend is having a problem, and it worries me because we share the same internet connection - every e-mail he sends from his computer gets sent to his ex-girlfiend's e-mail and also to some bitch friend of hers who then replies to him with snide comments like "oh, wouldn't Kim like to know about this?!!" He has used different e-mail servers, changed his passwords, all to no avail. Recently, he claims to have had some photos in his "my pictures" folder go missing - as in wiped off the drive - nowhere to be found. I have no answers for him. I would love to get to the bottom of this. My brother-in-law sent me here. He thinks someone sent him a "spy card." Can someone help?