Are the updates in Windows 10 Home big in size? at home I don’t have a fast internet connection but I don’t need the feature updates.
On Windows 10 Home 64-bit v1803, I find the monthly security updates offered by WU to be around 240 MB. I use a metered connection and have not been offered any feature updates. (Monthly updates from WU are much smaller than cumulative updates downloaded from Windows Catalog.)
With HOME you dont have a choce to pause updates, in special not the bigger ones after 6-month, like 1809 for you or upcoming 19H1. or set your connection to "metered". metered-internet-connection. https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/help/17452/windows-metered-internet-connections-faq at least when stopping updates your windows is currently high vulnerable because the april update fixed 74 critical CVE.