If someone starts a conversation with you, you'll receive this via mail automatically. But i guess you'll get this mail only if you're not logged in at Wilders. Example: If someone replies to a conversation: Edit: "Contact Details" - "Messaging Preferences" = [X] "Receive email when a new conversation message is received"
There's a SETTING under "Contact Details/Messaging Preferences" that turns this on (or DEFAULTs to ON... don't remember) and you should receive the emails regardless of your Wilders on-line status.